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Remembering Your Belovedness
Today is the Feast of Jesus’ Baptism and a good reminder that just as Jesus was pronounced God’s Beloved Son, so are we as Beloved Daughters of God. It’s particularly challenging to see our Belovedness during seasons of longsuffering and waiting. I have experienced many challenges during this season and often, they make me question whether God loves me as much as He loves the girl across the street, or the close friend or family member, who was given her heart’s every desire
Katie Zalany
Jan 112 min read
What Does God Want to Change in You?
So often we ask “What does God want me to do” and “What do I most want to do” when it comes to our decisions about our vocation. Rather, I’d like to pose the question that I think God asks of us more often: “What does God want to change in you?” I think this is especially true for people whose desires and vocations don’t come to fruition quite the way they wanted them to. Recently, I came to the conclusion that God may not want me to have biological children. Why? I don’t kn
Katie Zalany
Dec 7, 20251 min read
Expect God to Triumph In the Hardest Place
“Take the very hardest thing in your life – the place of difficulty, outward or inward, and expect God to triumph gloriously in that very...
Katie Zalany
Oct 12, 20252 min read
5 Ways to Use Your Time Better While Waiting
While waiting, we can get into a rut of not doing much. Many of us fall into a bit of depression waiting for the desires of our life to...
Katie Zalany
Sep 14, 20252 min read
Living a Difficult Situation Contributes to Fruitfulness
I was praying the Sorrowful Mysteries one evening recently with Benedictine College’s Rosary Meditations and stumbled upon this quote...
Katie Zalany
Aug 24, 20252 min read
Choose to Hope
In everything that happens around us, there is a choice. A choice of discouragement or hope. I turn 40 this month. And while I should be...
Katie Zalany
Jul 12, 20252 min read
Our Treasure Is In Heaven
My husband and I endured another failed child placement last week. We’ve had so many potential foster-to-adopt children not work out at...
Katie Zalany
Jun 21, 20251 min read
Are You Building a Life on Pressure or Purpose?
I saw something on social media a few weeks ago that really struck a chord: She realized she was living a life built on pressure instead...
Katie Zalany
May 18, 20252 min read
Watch and Pray
It’s Holy Thursday. We’ve been waiting for almost all of Lent, but the command to watch and pray with Jesus holds fast especially today...
Katie Zalany
Apr 17, 20251 min read
Desert Before Mission
I was pondering the desert experiences of John the Baptist and Jesus yesterday and realized an important insight. Before they were both...
Katie Zalany
Mar 23, 20251 min read
The Temptation to Be God
How many times I’ve felt the temptation to be God and fix my problems! The temptation to control the destiny of my life vs. wait for His...
Katie Zalany
Mar 9, 20252 min read
Wasting Time While Waiting?
My husband and I have been waiting for a foster to adopt placement the last several weeks and now that we have most everything bought and...
Katie Zalany
Feb 23, 20252 min read
There is No Right Answer, Just the Right Answer for You
Last night my husband and I were watching Mona Lisa Smile, a movie which tells the story of upper class women attending a prestigious...
Katie Zalany
Feb 9, 20252 min read
Follow The Joy
My husband and I have been on the adoption journey for about a year and a half. After no luck and a handful of failed adoptions, we...
Katie Zalany
Jan 19, 20251 min read
What’s Your Call to Action In the New Year?
I did my annual exercise today of reflecting on all my daily prayer journaling from this past year. It never ceases to surprise me how...
Katie Zalany
Dec 29, 20242 min read
What Does Your Life Proclaim?
My husband and I attended mass on the Feast of the Immaculate Conception this past week. The priest in his homily said some words that...
Katie Zalany
Dec 15, 20241 min read
On The Blessedness of Waiting: Insight from Bonhoeffer
“The blessedness of waiting is lost on those who cannot wait, and the fulfillment of promise is never theirs. They want quick answers to...
Katie Zalany
Dec 1, 20242 min read
Moral Loneliness While Waiting
Waiting in a faithful state can lead to feelings of moral loneliness. I was reminded recently in an article by Ron Rolheiser that Jesus’...
Katie Zalany
Nov 3, 20242 min read
When God is Silent
Does God seem silent? I was reminded recently that in the Garden of Gethsemane Jesus felt the Lord’s silence in response to His cries and...
Katie Zalany
Oct 20, 20241 min read
Blessed Are Those Who Hear the Word and Do It
At one of my recent Third Order Secular Franciscan ongoing formation gatherings, this passage from Luke 11:27-28 came up: As Jesus was...
Katie Zalany
Oct 13, 20242 min read
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