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Desert Before Mission
I was pondering the desert experiences of John the Baptist and Jesus yesterday and realized an important insight. Before they were both...
Katie Zalany
2 days ago1 min read
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The Temptation to Be God
How many times I’ve felt the temptation to be God and fix my problems! The temptation to control the destiny of my life vs. wait for His...
Katie Zalany
Mar 92 min read
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Wasting Time While Waiting?
My husband and I have been waiting for a foster to adopt placement the last several weeks and now that we have most everything bought and...
Katie Zalany
Feb 232 min read
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There is No Right Answer, Just the Right Answer for You
Last night my husband and I were watching Mona Lisa Smile, a movie which tells the story of upper class women attending a prestigious...
Katie Zalany
Feb 92 min read
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Follow The Joy
My husband and I have been on the adoption journey for about a year and a half. After no luck and a handful of failed adoptions, we...
Katie Zalany
Jan 191 min read
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What’s Your Call to Action In the New Year?
I did my annual exercise today of reflecting on all my daily prayer journaling from this past year. It never ceases to surprise me how...
Katie Zalany
Dec 29, 20242 min read
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What Does Your Life Proclaim?
My husband and I attended mass on the Feast of the Immaculate Conception this past week. The priest in his homily said some words that...
Katie Zalany
Dec 15, 20241 min read
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On The Blessedness of Waiting: Insight from Bonhoeffer
“The blessedness of waiting is lost on those who cannot wait, and the fulfillment of promise is never theirs. They want quick answers to...
Katie Zalany
Dec 1, 20242 min read
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Moral Loneliness While Waiting
Waiting in a faithful state can lead to feelings of moral loneliness. I was reminded recently in an article by Ron Rolheiser that Jesus’...
Katie Zalany
Nov 3, 20242 min read
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When God is Silent
Does God seem silent? I was reminded recently that in the Garden of Gethsemane Jesus felt the Lord’s silence in response to His cries and...
Katie Zalany
Oct 20, 20241 min read
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Blessed Are Those Who Hear the Word and Do It
At one of my recent Third Order Secular Franciscan ongoing formation gatherings, this passage from Luke 11:27-28 came up: As Jesus was...
Katie Zalany
Oct 13, 20242 min read
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Don’t Forget the Gospel!
Marriage and family are many people’s vocations, but I’m here to tell you that as you’re waiting, it’s certainly not an excuse to do...
Katie Zalany
Sep 15, 20242 min read
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On Adoption
Many times when spiritually accompanying women experiencing infertility, the question of adoption comes up and often it’s a gray area for...
Katie Zalany
Aug 25, 20242 min read
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God Gives The Vision
Many times I meet with women and they don’t know what to do next. I will frequently ask: Has God given you a vision? Sometimes He has,...
Katie Zalany
Aug 18, 20241 min read
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Impediments to Real Life
I was touched by the recent blog post “Obedient Unto Sickness” of Mother Petra of Christ the Bridegroom order. She explains that it is a...
Katie Zalany
Jul 28, 20242 min read
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If Not This, Then What is God’s Purpose for My Life?
A question that comes up very frequently with women in waiting is, “If not this, then what is God’s purpose for my life?” Many women in...
Katie Zalany
Jul 14, 20242 min read
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The Miracle You Didn’t Ask For
I was on my way to another baby shower lamenting why God still hadn't given me the miracle I've asked for and why my friends and family...
Katie Zalany
Jun 30, 20241 min read
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What To Do When God Seems Asleep
Long periods of waiting can feel like God is asleep just like the disciples must have felt when they were in the boat and the waves...
Katie Zalany
Jun 23, 20242 min read
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Life Lessons from Lauren Daigle
My husband and I recently went to the Lauren Daigle concert in my city. It was truly a wonderful experience. Joy, energy, and hope...
Katie Zalany
Jun 2, 20242 min read
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He Comforts All Her Waste Places
For the Lord comforts Zion; he comforts all her waste places and makes her wilderness like Eden, her desert like the garden of the Lord;...
Katie Zalany
May 26, 20241 min read
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